Understanding Grief
Grief is a natural response to loss, encompassing a wide range of emotions such as sadness, anger, confusion, and even relief. While many associate grief with the passing of a loved one, it can arise from many other life changes and losses.
Types of Loss That Can Lead to Grief
- The end of a relationship – Divorce or separation can bring about intense grief, as it represents the loss of a shared future, stability, and companionship.
- Job loss – Losing a job, especially one that provided a sense of purpose or financial security, can trigger grief and uncertainty about the future.
- Loss of a pet – The deep bond between humans and their pets means that their passing can feel as devastating as losing a close family member.
- Health challenges – A sudden diagnosis or chronic illness can result in grieving the loss of one’s former health, abilities, and independence.
- Major life transitions – Retirement, relocating to a new city, or children leaving home can lead to feelings of loss and identity shifts.
Your Unique Grief Journey
Each person's grief journey is unique, and there is no "right" way to grieve. At Helps Counselling, we honour your personal experience and provide a safe space for you to express and process your feelings. Our goal is to help you navigate this journey with understanding, self-compassion, and resilience.
Signs You May Benefit from Grief Counselling
Emotional Symptoms
- Persistent sadness, guilt, or regret that does not improve over time.
- Intense anger, irritability, or feelings of hopelessness.
- Difficulty experiencing positive emotions or feeling numb and disconnected.
- Sudden emotional outbursts or feeling overwhelmed by emotions.
Behavioral and Social Symptoms
- Avoiding places, people, or conversations that remind you of your loss.
- Withdrawing from friends, family, or activities that once brought joy.
- Increased reliance on substances like alcohol or drugs to numb emotions.
- Difficulty maintaining relationships due to unresolved grief.
Physical and Cognitive Symptoms
- Persistent fatigue, insomnia, or changes in appetite.
- Physical aches and pains without a clear medical cause.
- Trouble concentrating, forgetfulness, or feeling mentally foggy.
- Engaging in risk-taking behavior or self-neglect.
Our Grief Counselling Services
Individual Grief Counselling
One-on-one counselling provides a private and personalized space to explore your grief, emotions, and thoughts. In these sessions, you will work with an experienced grief counsellor to process your loss, develop coping strategies, and rebuild a sense of purpose.
Group Grief Therapy
Grief can often feel isolating, but you are not alone. Our group therapy sessions provide an opportunity to share your experiences with others who have also experienced loss, fostering connection and shared healing.
Family Grief Counselling
Families grieve in different ways, and loss can sometimes create strain among loved ones. Family grief counselling focuses on strengthening communication, fostering understanding, and providing support as a unit.
Our Approach to Grief Counselling
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
CBT helps identify and change unhelpful thought patterns related to grief, allowing you to develop healthier coping mechanisms.
Mindfulness and Self-Compassion Practices
Mindfulness techniques encourage being present in the moment, allowing for the acknowledgment and acceptance of grief without being overwhelmed.
Narrative Therapy
This approach helps individuals reshape their relationship with grief by finding meaning in their experiences and reauthoring their story.
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
ACT helps individuals accept their emotions rather than suppress them, focusing on living a meaningful life while acknowledging grief.
Why Choose Helps Counselling?
- Experienced and compassionate grief therapists.
- A personalized and client-centered approach.
- Safe, confidential, and supportive counselling environment.
- Flexible in-person and online therapy options.
Taking the Next Step
Grief can feel like an overwhelming weight, but you don’t have to carry it alone. At Helps Counselling in Port Moody, BC, we are here to walk alongside you, providing guidance, support, and a safe space to heal. Whether you are looking for individual therapy, group sessions, or family counselling, our compassionate team is ready to help you move forward.